Friends and friendships

After living this long, did you ever wonder if the choices you make in these 22 years are all meant to be made for you to become the person you are today?

Is the person you are today a happy one? The person who you are meant to be, the person you are? Or not.

At this point I realise nothing define you but yourself and the choices you make. Particularly your choice of friends.

100 people can say "I love you" but do they really? Probably. Or not. Think about the times you need to pick up your phone to ring someone up. Who will it be? And if he/she doesn't pick up, who will be the 2nd or 3rd person you'd call?

We'd all like to believe the "I love yous" we receive. But what if it's actually, "I'd love for you to..."? Things will starts to change. And you know is not a good change.

I'd love to start caring and loving again, even though I know sometimes is the most unrewarding and the hardest thing to do.

Because I want my "I love you" to be real.
Only to those who are worth it.

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TWG With Desiree

Earlier this week, I met up with one of the most funniest/craziest girl I know - Delightful Desiree! :D Finally get to meet up after such a long time. Well of course, knowing how retarded we can be together, we couldn't get over the word "Delightful" and every sentence we have was Incorporated with it. Eg. This was such a delightful evening! / What a delightful day!

I always enjoy time spent with this crazy fella. Monday, we decided to have our fav Far East Plaza Chicken Rice before heading down to TWG @ ION Orchard for Tea. It was my first time there and boy, the service was nothing but BAGUS! We had White Miracle Tea which has a tinch of strawberry fragrant, Chocolate; Caramel & Rose Macaroons, as well as their very special dessert named: Singapore Surprise - MUST TRY!

We had our tea selected by recommendation as you can see, the extensive tea list is just enough to make you feel inferior of some sort. :P

All in all, enjoyed my time at TWG! Thanks Des! <3 Will definitely be back some day.

Love love love my high waisted shorts from BKK & Simple detailed top from Liz!

Xoxo,

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SUNDAY EDEN BRUNCH @ Cali Cafe

Had a wonderful Sunday Brunch with my lovely Eden (Amplify's Cafe Team) people at Evan's restaurant! The food was simply DELICOUS and I loved the company!!

I finally get to spend some bonding time with these crazy fellas I love quite dearly. I have been so busy teaching swimming, training as well as with Blessings, I hardly have anytime for anything. The rest of the time I have left, I'd reserve it for the boy - which is not much either. :(

So anyway!!! Enough of whining, check out the good food I had with my fav group of monsters!

 

Winston pigging away!

  

 

My Eden Monsters <3

Food prepared with love by: Chef Evan Po 

Review: 5 stars.

Venue:  

Cali Cafe

31 Rochester Drive

#01-01 hotel park avenue rochester
Singapore 138637
Nearest MRT: Buona Vista Station

My extremely colour coordinated friend: Clayton

Our chilling spot after Brunch - Starbucks.
Love the concept of a vintage starbucks!

 After which, I went to spend the rest of my sunday with John in town for some retail therapy, good dinner to celebrate my CPR certification as well as have some good ice cream! Its been months since we had the luxury of time and money to do this.

 

 

 

 

As you can see, you can't go wrong with Garlic Prawn Pasta!

Ending off with Coffee ice cream + Chocolate shavings & Marshmallows!

To end off, this is just for laughs.
Check out another of John's talent: STONING.

Go visit Cali Cafe when you can, you will not regret it. :)

Have a good week ahead!

So Laban brought together all the people of the place and gave a feast. ~Genesis 29:22

Xoxo,

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Friends

FRIENDS 

Photocredits: DoraLynn 

Adora and I enjoyed our mini girlfriend picnic @ Botanical Gardens and slumber party. We've knew each other since we were 13. That will be 9 years!! (WOWSERS THAT'S LONG). Our birthdays are 2 days apart. I was born on the 7th and Adora on the 9th of March 1990. She has always been such a lovely sister to me. Even though I am the older one, we have a mutual understanding that I am her lil sister. Strange I know, but that's how we roll..

Have you ever (during your spare time when you have nothing better to do) wonder who your friends really are? The keepers and those that will remove themselves from your lives eventually? Basically the people you will invite to your wedding.

It is terribly upsetting that the people you thought will stick around can't wait to leave and the people you thought didn't matter as much are here to stay. Worst still, the people who made a point to show you how important you are, ends up making themselves look like a total idiot by not keeping to their word. There is a saying that if there's great connection and chemistry, no matter how busy you were, when you come together is like you never left. The conversations, mannerisms just syncs.

I don't know if you understand me. Sometimes we don't need someone to list down earthly rules and socially acceptable actions. We just need someone who can accept us and our emotions or reaction to certain situations first instead to jumping into giving someone else the benefit of a doubt. We are all humans are we?

Shared with love.

Xoxo, 

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My Fear of Swans

 

Today will be the day i reveal by shameful fear of SWANS! The black ones in particular. Well, long story short, during my Australia trip in the middle of my picnic, i decided to make some friends - with the swans.. and that was when it all began. 

Let the video do the talking. 

#cowardy #LOLitnevergetsold

Enough said.

PS: Do not estimate such animals. Even if they appear in Disney far too many times, doesn't mean they are like who you thought they will be in real life.

Xoxo,

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Ah-Lo-Ha!

 

I am finally back to blogging after so long! Feels good to want to share my life with the people in the world who matters.

Frankly it has been such a roller coaster ride for the past couple of years. With all the heartaches and mistakes, lost of loved ones and friendships we thought matter. However, not forgetting how at the same time I cannot be more blessed! 22 years.. Growing up was the worse idea ever. You have people judging you for your dreams, telling you how wrong you are and how it's suppose to be. Whatever "it" maybe, whether is your dreams or your current life path. Do not let anyone pull you down. What you become and how rich you are financially doesn't matter a slight bit. What matter is how you get there and the person whom you have become.

Are you loving?
Are you selfish?

I can't say I am there yet. But yea.. I try harder everyday. Sometimes i fall hard sometimes i slip a little. We are not perfect.. But did you try to be? If you did, which version of perfection was it? Your version Perfection has to eventually make you a person you always look up to be.

Good Luck!

xoxo,


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